So this morning I’m scrolling through my timeline when someone mentions that character Pat from BMF – you know, the slick-talking dude always stirring trouble. And I suddenly realize I got no clue who actually plays him. Felt dumb just sitting there not knowing, so I decided to dig into it properly.

The Frustration Phase
First thing? I straight up typed “BMF Pat actor” into Google. Whole page floods with spoilers and episode recaps – zero answers. Then I try “Who is Pat in BMF?” Still nothing useful. Kept seeing this name “Lil Meech” popping up everywhere, but that’s Demetrius Flenory Jr., who plays the main character Terry. Totally different dude. Felt like chasing my own tail.
Getting Smarter With Keywords
Took a breath and switched tactics. Instead of guessing nicknames, I looked up the show’s actual cast list on solid sources. Finally spotted the character listed as “Patrick, aka ‘Pat’” right there in the credits. And the actor attached? Demetrius ‘Lil Meech’ Flenory Jr.. Wait, what? That didn’t seem right – Terry and Pat look nothing alike.
The Facepalm Moment
Turns out I’d been spelling the last name wrong this whole time. Searched “Demetrius Flenory Jr. BMF” and bam – his official show profile pops up. But the photo was him as Terry, not Pat. Super confusing. Went deeper down the rabbit hole: found his Instagram, scrolled past all the Terry shots, and there it was… a tagged photo from set with him smirking in Pat’s clothes. Same eyes, same smile. Mind blown. The Flenory connection suddenly made sense – Pat is played by Demetrius’s real-life little brother, Demetrius Flenory Jr.. Yup, same first name – that’s why my initial search messed up.
Why This Tripped Me Up
Wrapping my head around these two points:
- Brothers playing brothers on screen (wild!)
- Identical legal names except the “Jr.” suffix
Mechanics like these make actor hunts brutal for casual fans. Shows rarely highlight such details upfront, leaving us to scrap for clues. Next time I hunt a supporting character? Searching the actor’s name plus the show and adding “character” or “role” works smoother than guessing nicknames.
