So I keep seeing these three-way light switches in older homes, right? My hallway lights drove me nuts – flip one switch, it turns on. Go downstairs, flip the other switch… nothing happens? Or sometimes it does but feels wrong. Couldn’t wrap my head around it. Figured it was time to rip one out and see what’s really going on. Forget complicated diagrams; let’s get our hands dirty.

Gathering My Stuff
First things first – gotta be safe. Grabbed:
- My flathead and Phillips screwdrivers (yeah, the trusty rusty ones).
- An old voltage tester my dad gave me. Looks janky but it beeps.
- Needle-nose pliers. Always handy when wires fight back.
- A flashlight. Of course, the breaker was gonna go OFF.
Stopped everything, went downstairs, flicked the main breaker to “OFF” for that hallway circuit. Tester confirmed – no beeping near the switch screws. Good to dig in.
Pulling the Old Switch Out
Unscrewed the faceplate. Then loosened the top and bottom screws holding the switch in its metal box. Wiggled it out carefully. Saw… a mess. Wires everywhere. Two black wires screwed down on the sides, like a normal switch. But then… wait, what’s this? Another screw, copper-colored, on its own, chilling at the bottom by itself? And… a red wire hooked to it? My normal single-pole switches just have two screws!
Pulled out the other hallway switch upstairs. Exact same weird setup: two black on the sides, lonely copper screw with a red wire at the bottom. Both switches had that extra screw and red wire. Okay, that copper screw and red wire are key players here.
The “Aha!” Moment
This is the “3-way” part. Forget the name; it’s confusing. The difference is ONLY that extra screw and that red traveler wire. Those two switches talk to each other through that red wire. That’s it! The black wires? The ones on the sides? Those are just doing the normal power IN (probably) and power OUT to the light, same as a simple switch.

It’s the middle screw and the red wire connecting the two switches that makes flipping one switch change what the other switch does to the light. Magic? Nah, just clever wiring. So a “3-way switch” just means it has three screws instead of two. Simple!
Putting It All Back Together
Made sure the wires were snug on their screws again. Black wires on the gold-colored screws on the sides? Good. Red wire on the copper screw? Good. Pushed each switch carefully back into its box, tightened the screws holding them in, slapped the faceplates back on.
The test: Turned the breaker back ON. Walked down the hall, flipped switch #1 – lights ON. Walked upstairs, flipped switch #2 – lights OFF. Flipped switch #2 again – lights ON! Flipped switch #1 again – lights OFF. It worked! That extra screw and traveler wire is the whole secret. Not so scary once you see it. So yeah, a “3-way single pole” is just… a switch with an extra screw and a chatty red wire.